THE SHEVET MUSSAR ( 14: 16 ) SAYS :
THAT THEY MADE PEOPLE HAPPY BY TEACHING THEM EMUNAH AND BITACHON IN HASHEM.
" IT IS WRONG TO BE WORRIED ABOUT THE FUTURE.
ONE SHOULD ALWAYS BE HAPPY, WHEN ONE IS HAPPY. IT PROVES THAT WE TRUSTS IN HASHEM.
EVEN IF HARD TIMES ARRIVE THAT WE DO NOT UNDERSTAND, HESHEM WILL FIX THE SITUATION, THE GEMARA SAYS THAT THESE PEOPLE HAD OLAM HABA BECAUSE THEY HAD BITACHON AND THEY TAUGHT BITACHON .
THERE ARE MANY OTHER WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE HAPPY DEEDS OF CHESED A FRIENDLY SMILE, A KIND WORD WILL ACCOMPLISH A LOT.
I TOLD MY GRANDCHILDREN IN MANCHESTER IF CHILDREN ASK THEM WERE THEY ARE GOING ON HOLIDAYS, TO ANSWER WITH A SMILE WE ARE STAYING AT HOME WITH MY PARENTS, AS MY PARENTS CAN NOT AFFORD TO GO ON HOLIDAYS
I TOLD THEM TO MAKE SURE YOU TELL IT WITH A SMILE AND ARE HAPPY ABOUT THAT.
WE DO NOT HAVE TO COPY EACH OTHER, WE DO NOT ALL HAVE TO AFFORD WHAT THE OTHER PARENTS DO ( AND SOME PARENTS WHO CAN NOT AFFORD TO DO )
SOME OF THESE STUPID PARENTS THINK THAT THEY ARE LETTING THEIR CHILDREN DOWN IN NOT HAVING WHAT THE OTHER CHILD HAS.
WE NEED TO START EDUCATING OUR CHILDREN ABOUT RICH AND POOR AND THAT IS A SITUATION MADE BY HESHEM
A PERSON THAT HAS EMUNAH AND BITACHON KNOWS THAT WHATEVER HAPPENS IS FROM HASHEM.
THIS IS WHAT WE HAVE TO TEACH OUR CHILDREN ! ! !