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Wednesday 23 July 2014

TRUE LOVE AND THE ASIFA

I HAVE BEEN TALKING TO A LOT OF FRUM YIDEN IN STAMFORD HILL AND GOLDERS GREEN.
THEY HAVE NO IDEA OF TRUE LOVE OF YOUR PARTNER AND MARRIED LIFE.
IT IS LIKE THE PERSON WHO SAYS HE LOVES FISH.
HE DOES NOT LOVE FISH, IF HE LOVED THE FISH HE WOULD NOT EAT IT.
HE LOVES HIMSELF ! ! 
LOVE IS A BOND OF TWO PEOPLE BECOMING ONE AND CARING AND LEARNING FROM EACH OTHER.
FALLING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE BY THE PEOPLE I TALKED TO 
WAS, THEY LOVED THERE PENIS AND NEEDED SOMEONE TO DO IT WITH.
I TRIED TO EXPLAIN TO THEM THAT REAL LOVE OF YOUR PARTNER
IS LOVING YOURSELF, WHICH BECOMES STRONGER BE'ESRAS HASHEM.
THE SEXUAL LOVE FOR YOUR PARTNER FALLS AWAY AS YOU GET OLDER. 
LOTS OF MEN AS THEY GET OLDER ARE NOT ABLE TO DO IT AND WOMEN AFTER THE MENOPAUSE DO NOT WANT IT.
ON THE FRONT PAGE AND INSIDE THERE ARE TWO ADVERTS .
IN THIS WEEK'S MIDWEEK 16 JULY 2014.
LADIES AND SEM GIRLS HISTORICAL ASIFA CALLED
FOUNDATIONS FOR GENERATIONS.
FIRST OF ALL IT IS TOO LATE WHEN THEY ARE SEM GIRLS OR MARRIED LADIES 
TO TRY AND PUT IN TO THEM THE FOUNDATIONS FOR GENERATIONS.
WE HAVE TO START WHEN THEY ARE CHILDREN FROM THE HOME AND IN SCHOOL.
AT THE ASIFA THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT
WHICH IS CAUSING FAMILIES TO BREAK DOWN WAS NOT MENTIONED.
TZENIUS BY THE JEWISH PEOPLE IS NOT WHEN THEY GO DRESSED LIKE THE ARABS.
 LIKE SOME B.T. SEEMS TO THINK.
TZENIUS BY A JEWISH WOMAN IS TO BE DRESSED TO LOOK SO ATTRACTIVELY THAT WHATEVER THE HUSBAND SEES IN THE GOYISHE WORLD WILL NOT AFFECT  HIM.
AS THE LEV SIMCHA TOLD ME: "IN A JEWISH WOMAN THE WHOLE HOUSE DEPENDS, " THAT IS THE JEWISH HOUSE, NOT IF HE GOES WITH A STREIMEL  ,ETC,ETC. 
THE HUSBAND GOES AROUND IN THE WORLD THE WIFE MUST MAKE SURE THAT HE DOES NOT DRIFT.
HAVE YOU SEEN HOW SOME OF OUR JEWISH WOMEN LOOK AND GO DRESSED EVEN ON SHABBOS. 

THESE ARE THE POINTS THAT NEED TO BE TALKED ABOUT BY THE ASIFA ! !


7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Grand rabbi lock. Why dont you make your own asifa. I am sure you could do a much better job.Dont charge or your wife wont attend. For others to attend you will of course have to pay them to come. Perhaps you can arrange for ITV to help.

batsheva said...

Why do you say that women after menopause dont want sex anymore? Pinkt farkehrt. Now that the children are out of the house, we really start living. Never before I had such a good sexlife with my chusheve husband

Rabbi Gaby Lock said...

BATSHEVA I DO NOT KNOW IF BEFORE YOUR MENOPAUSE YOU HAD A GOOD SEX LIFE ? ?
IT IS SAD THAT YOUR CHILDREN SEEM TO HAVE BEEN A BOTHER TO YOU
AND YOUR SEXLIFE
YOU DO NOT HAVE A FRUM JEWISH ATTITUDE TO LIFE
LIFE TO YOU IS ALL ABOUT ENJOYING YOURSELF

batsheva said...

Its not an aveirah, and yes, I enjoy life. Why is that wrong? What then is the frum jewish attitude?

batsheva said...

Also, i have not much other enjoyment, at least sex is free

Rabbi Gaby Lock said...

BATSHEVA :
WHAT I UNDERSTAND FROM YOUR REPLY IS
THAT YOUR WHOLE LIFE IS A LITTLE LITTLE PART OF YOUR BODY
THIS IS VERY VERY SAD
EDUCATION, EDUCATION, EDUCATION.

camden lock said...

Gaby have you had your menopause?