A CHILD AND DIVORCED PARENTS

THERE IS A BASIC MISUNDERSTANDING ESPECIALLY BY FRUM JEWS.
WHEN A MARRIAGE BREAKS DOWN G=D FORBID.
IF THERE ARE NO CHILDREN THEY JUST GET DIVORCED AND EACH  ONE GOES HIS OWN WAY.
THE GIRL AND BOY DO NOT HAVE TO REMEMBER ANYTHING OF THEIR FIRST BAD EXPERIENCE ( the same goes for the parents ). 
IF THERE IS EVEN ONE CHILD, IF THE PARENTS GET DIVORCED, THEY WILL ALWAYS HAVE A CONNECTION TO THE FIRST MARRIAGE ( so think before you have children).
YOU ARE THE FATHER OR MOTHER OF THIS CHILD EVEN IF YOU ARE DIVORCED.
THE CHILD UNDERSTANDS THIS, YOU HAVE TO RESPECT EACH OTHER AND NOT DEGRADE THE FATHER OR MOTHER, ESPECIALLY IN FRONT OF THE CHILD.
TO THE CHILD YOU ARE HIS FATHER OR MOTHER 100%.
 PLEASE DO NOT TRY AND WIN POINTS BY KNOCKING THE FATHER OR MOTHER.
THE CHILD STILL HAS THE MITZVAH OF THE TEN COMMANDMENTS HONOUR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER.
REALLY THE SAME GOES FOR THE GRAND-PARENTS.  
THIS IS SOMETHING NOT EXPLAINED TO A YOUNG COUPLE WHEN THEY GET ENGAGED AND  LATER MARRIED.
THE CHILD GIVES YOU A CONNECTION FOR EVER AND EVER, EVEN WHEN THIS CHILD GETS MARRIED AND HAS CHILDREN.
 THE GRAND-PARENTS ARE BOTH OF YOU.
UNLESS THIS CHILD DIES G=D FORBID, WITHOUT HAVING CHILDREN.
THEN YOU CAN SEVERE THE FIRST MARRIAGE CONNECTION FOR EVER.
I SEE SO MANY PEOPLE WHO HAVE A PROBLEM GETTING DIVORCED.
THE REASON BEING THE YOUNG WOMAN ( mostly influenced by stupid parents ) WHO DO NOT WANT TO LET THE FATHER HAVE EXCESS TO THE CHILD.
THEY COME OUT WITH LIES AGAINST THE FATHER I DO NOT WANT TO MENTION ON MY BLOG WHAT THEY SAY.
MY EXPERIENCE IN LIFE HAS SHOWN THAT THERE IS G=D WHO WATCHES AND PAYS BACK.
YOU HAVE MADE A MISTAKE, YOU CAN NOT GET ALONG, GET OVER IT AND LEARN TO LIVE WITH IT .
WHEN YOU HAVE A CHILD YOU CAN NOT MAKE THE PAST GO AWAY.