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Sunday 1 September 2013

WHITE LIES

AS A PSYCHIATRIST, YOUR GREATEST ASSET IS YOUR PATIENTS TRUST IN YOU.
" DO NOT  JEOPARDIZE  IT "
I AM CONVINCED THE MEDICAL DIRECTOR WAS RIGHT,  I NO LONGER TELL " WHITE LIES"  OR LIES OF ANY COLOUR, EVEN IF I CAN JUSTIFY THEM.
THE TORAH SAYS " YOU SHALL NOT LIE.                                                                                
 " THEN ADDS KEEP YOUR DISTANCE FROM FALSEHOOD "
THIS IS THE ONLY TIME THE TORAH FORBIDS SOMETHING THAT MIGHT LEAD TO A VIOLATION.
THIS IS IMPORTANT NOT ONLY  IN THE DOCTOR-PATIENT RELATIONSHIP, BUT IN ALL
RELATIONSHIPS.
IT IS OF SPECIAL IMPORTANCE IN MARRIAGE,BECAUSE THE BASIS OF MARRIAGE IS TRUST, AND IT SHOULD NOT BE JEOPARDISED.IF HUSBAND AND WIFE COMMIT THEMSELVES TO ABSOLUTE TRUTHFULNESS, THE MARRIAGE CAN WITHSTAND MANY STRESSES.
YOU MAY FIND A WAY TO CONVINCE YOURSELF THAT A PARTICULAR UNTRUTH IS NOT A VIOLATION OF THE TORAH ( ISSUR ).
EVEN IF YOU ARE RIGHT, THE FACT REMAINS THAT THE OTHER PERSON WILL FEEL THAT YOU LIED,AND HIS OR HER TRUST IN YOU IS UNDERMINED.
WHEN YEARS AGO I SUGGESTED  " MEET AND GREET "  AS A TRUE FRIENDSHIP GROUP
FOR LOTS OF LONELY PEOPLE TO COME TOGETHER.
MEET AND  JUST TALK HONESTLY WITH ONE ANOTHER WITH NO MOTIVE OF RAISING FUNDS FOR ZADOKA, JUST HONEST AND TRUE FRIENDSHIPS,WHICH REALLY EVERY  PERSON SHOULD HAVE WITH THEIR PARTNER.